Anger Is not good or bad. It simply is. Our culture often refers to anger as a “negative” emotion, implying that there are positive and negative emotions, desirable and undesirable feelings. That is not to say that some feelings FEEL better than others, and anger much of the time feels tight, tense and frightened but still, it’s part of our human experience. Feelings and thoughts are always coming and going- some invited into our minds and bodies, and some which barge in to o

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